Saying that women are indecisive, is a SERIOUS understatement. Their wants and needs seem to change as often as most of the fashion in high street boutiques. And go figure…it drives guys crazy. Then there is the  silver tongued guy that always seem to know the sweet nothings to whisper in order to have the most beautiful girl in the room on his arm…and that drives you guys crazy. (Actually guys sound a bit indecisive too, come to think of it)

I just really don’t get the fact that most guys seem so utterly clueless. Yes we have looked at the whole EQ issue. And maybe the argument has some value here. But guys don’t realise how incredibly easy it actually is. If you only knew one little, but monumentally important secret…

**I must admit we do sometimes enjoy you having no idea whatsoever where you stand. Aaaah the power in fear. Ps we can smell fear like we can smell a black American Express from a Mall away. Trust me on this one**

Come closer to the screen. I am only going to say this once and not too loudly either. Its like the fine print. We don’t want the word to get out.

Anyway the big SECRET you have been waiting for. All we want is…
the Grand Gesture. Let me give you an example. I have a friend that used to have an apartment overlooking Cavendish Square. One afternoon her boyfriend at the time, gave a call on her mobile and asked her if she could see anything different out her window. She shrieked with delight when she saw a banner hung from the Cavendish parking lot, telling her and the whole world that ‘he’ loved ‘her.’ Guess who got an amazing thank you in all different types of de-lick-table ways that night.

I know this sounds a bit extreme but it is an effective example none the less. I am not suggesting you surprise her with the cliché flowers and chocolates around every corner. Yet it would be incredibly sexy for you to show up at her work or apartment with her favourite flowers for no reason at all.
I am simply suggesting that you do something amazing once. Something that will have her smitten with you. Then as maintenance, start paying attention to the gestures that women observe and respond too and then put them into practice (as in opening a car door. Whatever is ‘her’ thing) Number 1: it shows her that she is a priority to you and number 2: when she moans in front of her friends about you, she will be swiftly told off and reminder that you have proved to be “such an amazing boyfriend.” Well she was the one that couldn’t stop bragging about you. Serves her right then.

Now go forth and be amazing little beavers while I ponder the more important things in life to Origin or not to Origin.